Saturday, September 28, 2013

Week 8 and 9- Back from Hell



Week 8 and 9- I’m Backkkkk (heck I have no idea what week I am on)

I feel like I am back from the dead.  I had a time of it with stomach issues and feeling drained.  The Thursday before the beach I had a sore throat and what would be my normal allergy/cold illness after school starts.  So, I went to the beach anyway and had a good time. 

Tuesday, however, I wake up with a fever and stomachache as well as the things that go along with that.  I go to school, sit in on a meeting (dripping with sweat, unable to contribute and on fire) and Sarah immediately gets me a sub and a ride (the principal’s driver took me, waited and then drove me home) to the SOS clinic.  I have a bacterial infection (after waiting for a blood test to rule out dengue “bleed out the eyeballs” fever).  No biggie- but I guess in a third world country a bacterial infection is a big deal.  So... I sleep for two days and then wake up with a backache because the beds are so hard.  I had no Internet so I cannot even mindlessly surf the web and there is nothing, I mean nothing on TV.  I start watching Wreck It Ralph and I am now into it and what happens- the electricity goes out with five minutes left in the movie! I do not know if the evil man was defeated and if the little girl reaches her goal.  Damn- I am a complainer!  I go back to work on Thursday since I had no fever and since writing lesson plans is more of a hassle than going to work.  The kids are so sweet.  I wake up to an email message from two of my favorite seniors from CHS, go to work and was given a teacher appreciation gift of Coco Chanel perfume and am invited to a birthday party (customary here for the kids to take everyone to a nice restaurant for their birthday). I love it when you feel really crappy and then the day just gets better and better.

And then it gets worse.  I finally get Internet and realize that the boys have been trying to get ahold of me.  I wait at home until Dylan is up and about 9:00 pm my time I am back to no Internet. So I walk to the school.  As I arrive it is black- not a lights on all around.  No electricity means no server, which means no Internet.  I sit outside on the steps and start praying for a miracle. I am frantic because I do not like this feeling.  I am mom and if they need me they should be able to get ahold of me.  After praying, I look up (genuinely thinking the lights will be on because God and I have that kind of connection!) only to see more blackness.  About that time Mark (our new internet guy) walks around the corner- have I talked about what a “G” he is??) and I start crying. Needless to say, he’s my miracle and I soon get to talk to both Josh and Dylan. No emergencies- just wanting to talk- thank goodness.   I truly believe that my request for friends to pray for me and my “reminder” bowls are working!

So it is now Friday and I am starting to feel human again.  It is Myanmar food day so all the staff and kids dress up in traditional clothing and at lunchtime the gym is full of food from all around the area. One of my seniors lead me around and tell me what to get and even though I made sure they gave me just one little taste- it was too much after being sick. After school, we have a student council movie night-which is really just a chance for the kids to hang out after school and socialize. By the time I get home, my stomach is at it again.  But I refuse to let it stop me.  Saturday I am up and ready to find a couch (with three days on my back it is so important now to never have that discomfort again).  So I shop, buy the first couch I find (plus some “Ray Ban” sunglasses, some material and another piece of lacquer ware) and I wonder where all my money is going!  I go to the French Film festival and see Quartet directed by Dustin Hoffman- if it is showing in the USA run to see it- loved it!!!  However, too much, too soon, sick again.  I miss the party Sunday and stay home and sleep all day.

By Monday I am starving.  Bananas, crackers and 7-Up was good for a while but I need real food. No noodles, no rice, no curry! About seven others join me and I am a happy camper. The week continues; I feel ok but not up to par.  Friday comes around and it is the night we have reservations to tour the local brewery.  Now I have been on some brewery tours, but nothing like this.  Basically, we tour for about 10 minutes and drink for about four hours- FREE. By the end we are doing karaoke and end with the chugging contest (what are we 18??).  First five girls (ok-- if you insist--I'll do it) start.  I think back to college days and yes! I still have it. I win (do not know if I should brag about this but I do think I surprised quite a few of the younger teachers- I felt like I won the lottery (but really only got to take home a Myanmar glass mug- which, in reality, wasn’t even a prize but asked for it anyway). The bus ride home was a sing-a-long and then a stop at the local beer station for more (I know my limits and went home).

Today is Saturday and I feel fine.  I need to grade, but have inked out tomorrow for that, so I join my roommate and friends for a tour of the alligator farm and nice French meal and a mani/pedi to end out the day- oh and popcorn. Life is good. 

Reflections So Far:
1.   It does not matter how much technology a person has, nothing is better than knowing you can pick up the phone and call.  Nothing better than holding those you love and giving them a big squeeze.  I worry about my sister, and brother, my best friend and children.  I hear of friends losing loved ones and do not like the fact that all I can do is post a Facebook message.  I am glad I will be home for Christmas; I plan to get a lot of hugs and kisses into the few weeks I will be there.
2.   I think I understand why so many of the teachers who teach overseas like this continue to do it.  Basically, most of your needs are taken care of by others (no cleaning, laundry, shopping) and on a teacher’s salary one can live extremely well. A trip is around every corner and money can be saved to buy a house where one wants to land in retirement.
3.   The other day I told Sarah I did not think these kids needed me like the ones I am use to teaching.  She told me I needed to dig a little deeper and that I might find out differently.  So much of teaching is not just the academic part. I think I miss being mom to the masses.
4.   In a third world country, one cannot get too comfortable.  My friend Scott did what I am so afraid of doing- he looked up and fell into God knows what- yes- one of those things I mentioned that occur around here.  Sidewalk, sidewalk, sidewalk, BAMB missing sidewalk and kurplunk- whole body in hole. We nursed him but he ended up going to the hospital in Bangkok- infected leg.  One can never be too careful and I do not care how “old ladyish” I look, I am going to continue looking down and being careful.
5.   I found good tweezers!!  It’s the little things in life that really matter.
 Myanmar brewery tour
 Courtney and Graham- singing
 Chugging champs
 Yes- that is a man's face in his mouth!
 alligator
 baby alligator
 Myanmar food day- Principal and his assistant
 another nice umbrella picture
 seniors- Myanmar food day

 Moms serving

The gym turned Myanmar food day event headquarters

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